03 May 2016
Most common couple issues in wedding planning process
Wedding customs and traditions vary, depending on the ethnic group that you belong to. Planning perfect wedding event is essential and it can be done when you know the rituals that are to be followed during your special day. Incomplete knowledge about the rituals is the common issue faced by a couple while carrying out wedding planning process.
Here are details of few other common couple issues faced while carrying out wedding planning process:
WHEN YOU ARE NOT CLEAR ABOUT YOUR NEEDS AND EXPECTATIONS…
Expectations are building in your mind until you commence with the wedding planning process. The problem arises when you have to do certain things that contradict your own expectations. You may go through emotional turmoil while taking some of the decisions depending on the available choices. Being in the world of fantasy and facing reality are two different things. Divide your wedding planning list into three categories:
- Must required things
- Not very important things
- Things you don’t need at all
Find a midway solution to meet your needs in such a way that you don’t have to let down your partner by not maintaining the basic standard of expectations. Have a healthy conversation with your partner and decide over the potential compromises.
WHEN YOU DON’T HAVE REALISTIC BUDGET…
Issues related to money are the most common things faced by a couple while carrying out wedding planning process. Don’t just create a plan! Have look at your budget carefully! It is always advisable to set a realistic budget. Stress for money can lower down your level of excitement and joy. The wedding is one of the most important days of your life and don’t ruin it for the almighty god that is money.
WHEN YOU DON’T COMMUNICATE…
Healthy communication with your spouse, wedding planner, parents, friends etc is essential if you don’t want any kind of hassle during your special day. Involve people in the wedding planning process who are going to help you with your finances. What you want to say and how you want to say? Decide on it and carry put communication with the dear ones accordingly. Handle things tactfully so that you don’t hurt the feelings of loved ones.
WHEN YOU DON’T HIRE SERVICE OF WEDDING PROFESSIONALS…
Your wedding is the once in a lifetime event. Even if you are keeping it as a small event, ensure that you take assistance of professionals. There is no substitute to the experienced wedding professionals. Look out for professional services that can answer all your questions and can plan event keeping in mind your requirements.
WHEN YOU ASSUME THAT RESPONSIBLE PEOPLE KNOW THEIR DUTIES…
In your wedding event many near and dear ones may have complete knowledge about making certain wedding-related arrangements. You generally assume that your friends and some of the relatives have attended many such events and have complete knowledge about carrying out pre-preparation. It is important for you to get out of this assumption. When you are handing over duties to the respective people, it is very important for you to explain them their role in your wedding in detail. This can allow you to successfully accomplish the stated tasks.
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